女孩问男孩：“你爱我吗？”
男孩沉默了...
女孩似乎明白了男孩的意思，淡淡地说：“我明白了！”
男孩看见女孩沮丧的表情，欲言又止...
女孩对男孩说：“不要觉得对不起我，我们还是朋友吗？”
男孩说：“其实我对你也有感觉，只是...”
女孩说：“你不必安慰我，我知道其实你不爱我。”
男孩似乎被女孩说中了心事，选择了继续沉默...
女孩说：“与其说你不爱我，不如说你不够爱我吧，我知道你心中有我，只是你觉得我还不适合当你的女朋友！”
男孩说：“你知道我想什么吗？”
女孩说：“其实一个人爱不爱一个人，那个人心中都有数的，假装什么都不知道只是不想破坏现有的关系，怕连朋友都不是。”
男孩又说：“既然如此，那你为什么还要对我说出口呢？”
女孩说：“因为你已经在无意间发现了我对你的感觉，我感觉到你有意无意地避开我，既然你都知道我爱你了，为了避免让你离我远去，所以我选择先开口，至少不为自己留下任何的遗憾...”
男孩说：“我知道你爱我，也知道你对我很好，但真的就少了那么点感觉”
女孩说：“我不知道这句话说出口后，我们两个人会变得怎样，但我知道现在的我轻松了，至少你没有离我远去，我们还是很好的朋友！”
男孩说：“那你看见我，不会觉得尴尬吗？”
女孩说：“会有点淡淡的忧伤，我会等你，但我不会介入你的生活，因为我不希望我们到此为止...”
男孩说：“别等我了，追求属于你自己的幸福吧！”
女孩说：“你也在等着一个人啊，他也有男朋友了，难道你会因为她的一句话，而不等他了吗？”
男孩顿时无言...
女孩说：“放心吧，我不是那种死缠烂打的人，有些话说出来了，关系不一样了，或许我们真的不能再像我们从前那么好了，但是你要记得，如果有一天你发现你不能没有我时，我会随时出现在你身边...”
男孩感动，却没再说什么了...
爱一个人，不一定要和他在一起，
但爱一个人，至少让他知道你爱他吧，
因为无论你伪装得再好，事实就是你真的爱他，
爱他你就无法对他和对其他人一样，
他怎么样都会感受到的...
别说你爱他，他不知道你爱他，只是他不愿意承认，
又或许他也和你一样，等待着一个在一起的机会...
距离，从来就不会因为一句我爱你而变得遥远，
遥远的距离，就是他就站在你面前，却不知道你爱他…
告白不一定是要他接受你，只是要让他知道你爱他，
爱他不一定要和他在一起，至少你有对他好的理由，
告白时，你就应该知道，他有权利拒绝你了,
别让你的告白成为他的压力，否则你们连朋友也不是了...
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Monday, October 25, 2010
How to forget the past?
Sometimes, events that happen in our life make us feel tired, burdened, or regretful. We spend too much time thinking about a horrible deed we've committed, even though we can no longer change it. So how do we move on from a bad experience?
Steps:
1. Accept that it already happened. It's not the easiest thing to do, but it will help you get on your way. The past is a part of your life now, but it is not the most important part. Accept the fact that it can no longer be changed in anyway.
2. Change your cognition to not feel as bad about what happened, and decrease anxiety that triggers going back to the past; for example, if you were embarrassed, tell yourself don't worry, everyone gets embarrassed; various relaxation methods will decrease anxiety which can trigger bad memories.
3. Live in the present. This one is kind of hard, as well, since the present is easy to take for granted. Know that by constantly using your present time wisely, you are constantly making a better past for yourself.
4. Learn from it. Something good always comes out of anything, even if it is a very bad experience. Find the lesson involved and try not to make the same mistake twice.
5. Forgive. Yourself or the ones that have hurt you. Cut some slack to others and yourself. Nobody asks to be given a bad memory. People are not perfect. Everyone is prone to make mistakes. That's how people are. And the only way to really move on from a bad experience is to forgive the people involved.
6. If all of the above don't help, then maybe try some journal-ing in a diary, or journal. But be specific about what's bothering you.
7. Just forgive them for what ever they have done and don't ever be sad, they are too human and thus make mistakes just look for hopes because ""fear can hold you as a prisoner and hope can set you free"""
Steps:
1. Accept that it already happened. It's not the easiest thing to do, but it will help you get on your way. The past is a part of your life now, but it is not the most important part. Accept the fact that it can no longer be changed in anyway.
2. Change your cognition to not feel as bad about what happened, and decrease anxiety that triggers going back to the past; for example, if you were embarrassed, tell yourself don't worry, everyone gets embarrassed; various relaxation methods will decrease anxiety which can trigger bad memories.
3. Live in the present. This one is kind of hard, as well, since the present is easy to take for granted. Know that by constantly using your present time wisely, you are constantly making a better past for yourself.
4. Learn from it. Something good always comes out of anything, even if it is a very bad experience. Find the lesson involved and try not to make the same mistake twice.
5. Forgive. Yourself or the ones that have hurt you. Cut some slack to others and yourself. Nobody asks to be given a bad memory. People are not perfect. Everyone is prone to make mistakes. That's how people are. And the only way to really move on from a bad experience is to forgive the people involved.
6. If all of the above don't help, then maybe try some journal-ing in a diary, or journal. But be specific about what's bothering you.
7. Just forgive them for what ever they have done and don't ever be sad, they are too human and thus make mistakes just look for hopes because ""fear can hold you as a prisoner and hope can set you free"""
Friday, October 22, 2010
He need to look more!
Boy: I broke up with her.
His Best Friend: What happened?
Boy: She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?
Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..
Boy: Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..
Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..
Boy: I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t bitch about it.
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..
Boy: Well, she..
His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?
Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.___________________________________________________Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.
His Best Friend: What happened?
Boy: She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?
Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..
Boy: Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..
Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..
Boy: I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t bitch about it.
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..
Boy: Well, she..
His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?
Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.___________________________________________________Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
如果一个男人真的♥你..
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他冷落妳不會超過三天，
因為想念妳的日子很難度過 ........
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會給妳一個甜蜜的稱呼，
只屬於他一個人喊的稱呼 ......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，會令你溶入他的生活，
決不會相愛多年後，還讓妳妾身未明 ......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會把妳當孩子般寵愛，
但是自己又說不出寵妳的原因…
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會讓妳開心快樂，
捨不得讓妳流淚 ..
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他的手機會24小時為妳開機，
隨時隨地讓妳能夠找到他 .....
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會覺得妳是最好的，
不會將妳和其他女人做比較，即便妳並不優秀 ......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會抽出時間來陪妳，
即使自己真的很忙，因為他看不見妳會很想妳.....
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他不會要求妳減肥，
因為他把妳的身體健康看作第一位 .........
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會很想和妳生活在一起，
會把妳看成是生命中最重要的 .....
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會經常緊緊地抱著妳，
讓妳感受他的心跳 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會在妳睡著的時候輕輕吻妳，
因為妳是他的天使 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會讓妳買妳喜歡的東西，
並且很高興陪妳逛街 ........
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會對妳的家人、朋友都很好，
喜歡融入到他們當中 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會默默地為妳付出一切，
但很少讓妳知道他所做的犧牲 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會看妳吃飯的時候傻笑，
然後把好吃都留給妳吃…
如果一個男人愛妳，他會不厭其煩提醒妳吃飯，穿衣服，
聽妳說「煩了」，他還是要提醒妳，因為妳是他的一切
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會記住妳說的每句話，
哪怕是一句小玩笑，他也會放心裏。
然後努力改變自己的生活習慣。
如果一個男人真的愛妳，在妳過馬路的時候會拉著妳的手，
怕妳橫衝直撞出什麼事，所以不要甩開他的手。
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他的手機裏都是關於妳的東西，
想妳的時候會對著手機傻笑，
妳是他最美好的幸福 ...
因為想念妳的日子很難度過 ........
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會給妳一個甜蜜的稱呼，
只屬於他一個人喊的稱呼 ......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，會令你溶入他的生活，
決不會相愛多年後，還讓妳妾身未明 ......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會把妳當孩子般寵愛，
但是自己又說不出寵妳的原因…
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會讓妳開心快樂，
捨不得讓妳流淚 ..
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他的手機會24小時為妳開機，
隨時隨地讓妳能夠找到他 .....
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會覺得妳是最好的，
不會將妳和其他女人做比較，即便妳並不優秀 ......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會抽出時間來陪妳，
即使自己真的很忙，因為他看不見妳會很想妳.....
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他不會要求妳減肥，
因為他把妳的身體健康看作第一位 .........
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會很想和妳生活在一起，
會把妳看成是生命中最重要的 .....
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會經常緊緊地抱著妳，
讓妳感受他的心跳 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會在妳睡著的時候輕輕吻妳，
因為妳是他的天使 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會讓妳買妳喜歡的東西，
並且很高興陪妳逛街 ........
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會對妳的家人、朋友都很好，
喜歡融入到他們當中 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會默默地為妳付出一切，
但很少讓妳知道他所做的犧牲 .......
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會看妳吃飯的時候傻笑，
然後把好吃都留給妳吃…
如果一個男人愛妳，他會不厭其煩提醒妳吃飯，穿衣服，
聽妳說「煩了」，他還是要提醒妳，因為妳是他的一切
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他會記住妳說的每句話，
哪怕是一句小玩笑，他也會放心裏。
然後努力改變自己的生活習慣。
如果一個男人真的愛妳，在妳過馬路的時候會拉著妳的手，
怕妳橫衝直撞出什麼事，所以不要甩開他的手。
如果一個男人真的愛妳，他的手機裏都是關於妳的東西，
想妳的時候會對著手機傻笑，
妳是他最美好的幸福 ...
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
好朋友...
1、好朋友就是經常叫你"去死吧"的那些人......
2、好朋友就是老是說你有病叫你看醫生的那些人......
3、好朋友就是抓住你的一個缺點說上半天的那些人......
4、好朋友就是在你面前肆無忌憚地說很難聽的話的那些人......
5、好朋友就是說要拉大隊去你學校把你吃窮的那些人......
6、好朋友就是看著你玩得很開心，自己卻在旁邊不參與也會覺得很開心的那些人......
7、好朋友就是會教你怎麼走路小心，過馬路看車的那些人......
8、好朋友就是你考完試還暈乎乎的時候出現在你面前嘻嘻哈哈，還說你不要怕，吸取經驗，明年再考過的那些人......
9、好朋友就是跟你一起不分輕重可是對你父母畢恭畢敬的那些人......
10、好朋友就是平時惡型惡相，卻在你遇到難事時語重心長地開導你的那些人......
11、好朋友就是那些無論原本是憂鬱，沉默或是樂觀向上，在一起總是嬉鬧聲一片的那群人......
12、好朋友就是你想起她時會嘴角上揚的那些人......
13、好朋友就是時間和距離都無法從你腦海和心中帶走的人......
14、好朋友就是聽到你說了一句錯話笑鬧半天還要羅嗦上一段時間的那些人......
15、好朋友就是不經常聯繫，但你還忘不掉的那個人。
16、好朋友就是兩個人在一起時，你不用擔心會說什麼錯話，做錯什麼事的那個人。
17、好朋友是你會突然想念的那個人。
18、好朋友是無論誰佔誰一點便宜都不會計較的那個人。
19、好朋友就是和你同甘共苦，不會出賣你的那個人。
20、好朋友就是什麼事都會和你分享的那個人。
21、好朋友就是好久沒見，在一起時還會和你套心窩子說話，就像昨天剛在一起吃過飯的那個人。
22、好朋友就是和她在一起時你是最真實的你的那個人。
23、好朋友就是很久沒聯繫，見面也不會尷尬的那個人。
24、好朋友就是無論你做了什麼傻事。都會給你支持和信任的那個人。
25、好朋友就是無論她做了什麼，你也覺得他是你好朋友的那個人。
26、好朋友就是半夜三更會和你一起糾結要不要睡覺的那個人。
27、好朋友就是在你面前會變得囉嗦，你會笑著說他像你媽的那個人。
28、好朋友就是無聊時喜歡湊在一堆一起做無聊的傻事的那些人。
29、好朋友就是會和你在大街上，即使丟臉也會拽著你的手狂奔的那個人。
30、好朋友就是會跟你在無意間對視之後再跟你一塊放聲狂笑的那個人。
31、好朋友就是你會因為他的一句話而充滿勇氣與信心的那個人。
32、好朋友就是彼此之間喜歡惡作劇並且在惡作劇成功之後兩人都笑得很開心的那個人。
这就是叫好朋友 ^_______^
2、好朋友就是老是說你有病叫你看醫生的那些人......
3、好朋友就是抓住你的一個缺點說上半天的那些人......
4、好朋友就是在你面前肆無忌憚地說很難聽的話的那些人......
5、好朋友就是說要拉大隊去你學校把你吃窮的那些人......
6、好朋友就是看著你玩得很開心，自己卻在旁邊不參與也會覺得很開心的那些人......
7、好朋友就是會教你怎麼走路小心，過馬路看車的那些人......
8、好朋友就是你考完試還暈乎乎的時候出現在你面前嘻嘻哈哈，還說你不要怕，吸取經驗，明年再考過的那些人......
9、好朋友就是跟你一起不分輕重可是對你父母畢恭畢敬的那些人......
10、好朋友就是平時惡型惡相，卻在你遇到難事時語重心長地開導你的那些人......
11、好朋友就是那些無論原本是憂鬱，沉默或是樂觀向上，在一起總是嬉鬧聲一片的那群人......
12、好朋友就是你想起她時會嘴角上揚的那些人......
13、好朋友就是時間和距離都無法從你腦海和心中帶走的人......
14、好朋友就是聽到你說了一句錯話笑鬧半天還要羅嗦上一段時間的那些人......
15、好朋友就是不經常聯繫，但你還忘不掉的那個人。
16、好朋友就是兩個人在一起時，你不用擔心會說什麼錯話，做錯什麼事的那個人。
17、好朋友是你會突然想念的那個人。
18、好朋友是無論誰佔誰一點便宜都不會計較的那個人。
19、好朋友就是和你同甘共苦，不會出賣你的那個人。
20、好朋友就是什麼事都會和你分享的那個人。
21、好朋友就是好久沒見，在一起時還會和你套心窩子說話，就像昨天剛在一起吃過飯的那個人。
22、好朋友就是和她在一起時你是最真實的你的那個人。
23、好朋友就是很久沒聯繫，見面也不會尷尬的那個人。
24、好朋友就是無論你做了什麼傻事。都會給你支持和信任的那個人。
25、好朋友就是無論她做了什麼，你也覺得他是你好朋友的那個人。
26、好朋友就是半夜三更會和你一起糾結要不要睡覺的那個人。
27、好朋友就是在你面前會變得囉嗦，你會笑著說他像你媽的那個人。
28、好朋友就是無聊時喜歡湊在一堆一起做無聊的傻事的那些人。
29、好朋友就是會和你在大街上，即使丟臉也會拽著你的手狂奔的那個人。
30、好朋友就是會跟你在無意間對視之後再跟你一塊放聲狂笑的那個人。
31、好朋友就是你會因為他的一句話而充滿勇氣與信心的那個人。
32、好朋友就是彼此之間喜歡惡作劇並且在惡作劇成功之後兩人都笑得很開心的那個人。
这就是叫好朋友 ^_______^
Friday, July 30, 2010
jokes ^___^
Just to shovel some of your pressure (NOT pleasure), I append below some jokes for your reading ...........
A man breaks into a house to look for money and guns. Inside, he finds couple in bed. He orders the guy out of the bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the home owner's wife to the bed the convict gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom.
While he's in there, the husband whispers over to his wife: 'Listen, this guy is an escaped convict. Look at his clothes!
He's probably spent a lot of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain...do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is obviously very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us both. Be strong, honey. I love you!'
His wife responds: 'He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in my ear. He told me that he's gay, thinks you're cute, and asked if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you, too.'
***************************
A woman was helping her husband set up his computer and, at the appropriate point in the process, she told him that he would now need to enter a password. Something he could remember easily and would use each time he had to log on.
The husband was a bit bored by the process and, feeling in a rather amorous mood, figured he would try for the shock effect to bring this to his wife's attention. So, when the computer asked him to enter his password, he paused for effect, then letter by letter, with his wife watching over his shoulder, he keyed in ......
P
E
N
I
S
His wife fell off her chair laughing when the computer replied:
PASSWORD: REJECTED.... ... NOT LONG ENOUGH
********************************
A young man was planning to get married and asked his doctor how he could tell if his bride is a virgin.
The doctor said, 'Well, you need three things. A can of red paint, a can of blue paint and a shovel..'
The man was astonished and asked, 'So what do I do with these?'
The doctor replied, 'Before the wedding night, you paint your one ball red and the other ball blue. If she says, 'That's the strangest pair of balls I ever saw', you hit her head with the shovel.'.... .
A man breaks into a house to look for money and guns. Inside, he finds couple in bed. He orders the guy out of the bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the home owner's wife to the bed the convict gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom.
While he's in there, the husband whispers over to his wife: 'Listen, this guy is an escaped convict. Look at his clothes!
He's probably spent a lot of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain...do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is obviously very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us both. Be strong, honey. I love you!'
His wife responds: 'He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in my ear. He told me that he's gay, thinks you're cute, and asked if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you, too.'
***************************
A woman was helping her husband set up his computer and, at the appropriate point in the process, she told him that he would now need to enter a password. Something he could remember easily and would use each time he had to log on.
The husband was a bit bored by the process and, feeling in a rather amorous mood, figured he would try for the shock effect to bring this to his wife's attention. So, when the computer asked him to enter his password, he paused for effect, then letter by letter, with his wife watching over his shoulder, he keyed in ......
P
E
N
I
S
His wife fell off her chair laughing when the computer replied:
PASSWORD: REJECTED.... ... NOT LONG ENOUGH
********************************
A young man was planning to get married and asked his doctor how he could tell if his bride is a virgin.
The doctor said, 'Well, you need three things. A can of red paint, a can of blue paint and a shovel..'
The man was astonished and asked, 'So what do I do with these?'
The doctor replied, 'Before the wedding night, you paint your one ball red and the other ball blue. If she says, 'That's the strangest pair of balls I ever saw', you hit her head with the shovel.'.... .
Monday, June 14, 2010
痛了.. 就会放手了..
有个苦者找到一个和尚倾诉他的心事。
他说：“我放不下一些事，放不下一些人。”
和尚说：“没有什么东西是放不下的。”
他说：“这些事和人我就偏偏放不下。”
和尚让他拿着一个茶杯，然后就往里面倒热水，一直倒到水溢出来。
苦者被烫到马上松开了手。
和尚说：“这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的，痛了，你自然就会放下。”
你可能觉得难过
因为无论你对他怎么好他都不领情
他不是看不到
他只是装作看不到
或者他根本不想看到
你觉得自己很喜欢他
甚至觉得再没有一个人可以像你那么喜欢他
你用尽全力对他好
把他看的比自己还重要
有什么事情第一个就想到他
联系不到他的时候你担心他担心的快疯了
然而你有没有想过
这并不在你的责任范围
而且很有可能他是在躲着你
他受不了你对他那么好
不要一直发短信给他
不要一直找他
你也许只是想找他说说话
你觉得那很正常不算苛求
但是也许他并不这么想
记住你的想法不代表他的想法
你是真的不求回报的在喜欢他吗
你扪心自问一下
你确定不用他回报什么吗
那为什么你会难过
若是真的一无所求
你又怎么会觉得难过呢
所以别觉得你那么爱他是伟大的
也许她根本不在乎你怎么为他付出
有时候你给他的爱或许是种负担
这种负担只会让他更加想远离你
因为他不想亏欠你
别事事为他担心为他张罗
你觉得他没有你不行
你觉得别人做不到你那么完善
但是你要清楚
你不是他要的那个人
你做的再完善也敌不过人家不做
自然会有人为他担心为他着急
不用你来费心
那个位置本来就不是你的
你何必硬要挤上去呢
也许曾经你们是相爱过的
但是请记住那是曾经
过去的就是过去了
如果大家真的适合在一起
那么当初就不会分开
无论是谁提的分手都一样
这段感情曾经就是存在破裂点的
不管是谁错结果都是一个你们分开了
分开以后
如果一方试图想挽回而另一方没有同意的话
那么这段感情就是过去了
他是理智的因为他已经明白了两个人不适合
而你还一遍一遍的告诉自己
你们当初如何如何相爱
不可能那么容易就分手的
这样只会让你更加难以放弃
却不会让对方再次回头选择你
除非大家都有意要和好
否则你一个巴掌是不可能拍响的
所以尽早打消这个念头吧
至于他是不是有意我想你自己心里比谁都明白
不要觉得自己有多可怜或者把自己弄的很可怜
这样做一点意思也没有
他不会因为你可怜而喜欢你
你说道理你都懂只是你做不好
不是你做不好是你不想做
你不是怕忘记他你是怕他忘了你吧
别说什么他离不开你的
其实分明就是你离不开他
他若是离不开你
他就不会不要你
整天死死巴着人家不放的人是你
不懂事的人是你
难道你没看出来吗
喜欢他不是你的错
想关心他不是你的错
控制不住自己不是你的错
但是那是你的方式
傻孩子．
忘了吧．所有你留恋的．你回忆的．你拥有过的．
那些．都已是记忆．
缺失并不可怕．
可怕的．是无法面对．
傻孩子．
勇敢看着镜子中的自己吧．
这个悲伤软弱满面憔悴的自己．
这也是你．成长中的你．
这个你．正在逐渐死去．
新的你．即将重生．
找寻你的路．你的未来．
你知道的．所有的浩劫．都是成长的祭奠．
做最好的自己．即使．一个人．
傻孩子．
你无法轻易忘记放弃．是因为你付出过．
付出了．她就会像柱子一样扎根在心．
不要刻意去逃避．刻意忘记．那只会让你更痛苦．
绕开这个柱子．寻找未来的幸福生活吧．
那里．有你的理想．
傻孩子．
开始新的习惯吧．
习惯．早上不再有人工闹铃．
习惯．每天一个人生活．
习惯．一个人过生日．一个人行走．
你逃不掉．逃不掉的．
那么．就勇敢面对．现实．
现实是．她已离开．一切．画上了句点．
傻孩子．
好．好．尽情发泄吧．
剥开自己的心．用文字．用声音．用所有能发泄的方式．
泄完了．就要振作．
看吧．你失去的．其实微不足道．
还有那么多人关心着你．以不同的方式．
所以．你并不孤独．
正是这样的失去．让你看清现在所拥有的幸福．
傻孩子．
别哭．别再哭．
不值得．真的．不值得了．
把过去尘封吧．别委屈．别不甘心．别不接受．
开始新的旅程吧．去遇见新的风景．新的际遇．
做你该做的事吧．有很多事．等待着你完成呢．
傻孩子．
所有的人都对你有信心．
所以．你也要充满信心．
你是坚强的．积极的．乐观的．洒脱的．
以前是．以后也会是．
总有一天．那个活力无穷傻气无尽的女金刚会复活．
傻孩子．
生活褪去了曾有的颜色．暂时宁静．
别沉沦在这片宁静里．那会毁掉你．
你要明白．虽然残忍．但这个决定．足够正确．
现在的生活．不是你想要的．
为了你的理想．你必须学会适时放弃．
给对方最好的关怀．就是．变的更好．更强大．更幸福．
现在我对你很好、很好、很好,
你不需要、你无所谓、你不在乎，你不珍惜。。。。
当某天，你被伤害，想起我。
那时的我再也做不到像现在这样一如既往、不顾一切的
对你好了。。。
因为那时的我，已经将你放低。。。。
原来，放低一个人，最后是被对方逼出来的。。。。
其实这个世界，真的没有非要谁不可，
走自己的路，别回头
p/s: guys, i think this is very meaningful.
是你的就是你的
不是你的, 怎么勉强也不会是你的
缘份很讲究timing
meet the right person at the right time
that is what all about^^
p/s: i GET it now~~!!!
他说：“我放不下一些事，放不下一些人。”
和尚说：“没有什么东西是放不下的。”
他说：“这些事和人我就偏偏放不下。”
和尚让他拿着一个茶杯，然后就往里面倒热水，一直倒到水溢出来。
苦者被烫到马上松开了手。
和尚说：“这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的，痛了，你自然就会放下。”
你可能觉得难过
因为无论你对他怎么好他都不领情
他不是看不到
他只是装作看不到
或者他根本不想看到
你觉得自己很喜欢他
甚至觉得再没有一个人可以像你那么喜欢他
你用尽全力对他好
把他看的比自己还重要
有什么事情第一个就想到他
联系不到他的时候你担心他担心的快疯了
然而你有没有想过
这并不在你的责任范围
而且很有可能他是在躲着你
他受不了你对他那么好
不要一直发短信给他
不要一直找他
你也许只是想找他说说话
你觉得那很正常不算苛求
但是也许他并不这么想
记住你的想法不代表他的想法
你是真的不求回报的在喜欢他吗
你扪心自问一下
你确定不用他回报什么吗
那为什么你会难过
若是真的一无所求
你又怎么会觉得难过呢
所以别觉得你那么爱他是伟大的
也许她根本不在乎你怎么为他付出
有时候你给他的爱或许是种负担
这种负担只会让他更加想远离你
因为他不想亏欠你
别事事为他担心为他张罗
你觉得他没有你不行
你觉得别人做不到你那么完善
但是你要清楚
你不是他要的那个人
你做的再完善也敌不过人家不做
自然会有人为他担心为他着急
不用你来费心
那个位置本来就不是你的
你何必硬要挤上去呢
也许曾经你们是相爱过的
但是请记住那是曾经
过去的就是过去了
如果大家真的适合在一起
那么当初就不会分开
无论是谁提的分手都一样
这段感情曾经就是存在破裂点的
不管是谁错结果都是一个你们分开了
分开以后
如果一方试图想挽回而另一方没有同意的话
那么这段感情就是过去了
他是理智的因为他已经明白了两个人不适合
而你还一遍一遍的告诉自己
你们当初如何如何相爱
不可能那么容易就分手的
这样只会让你更加难以放弃
却不会让对方再次回头选择你
除非大家都有意要和好
否则你一个巴掌是不可能拍响的
所以尽早打消这个念头吧
至于他是不是有意我想你自己心里比谁都明白
不要觉得自己有多可怜或者把自己弄的很可怜
这样做一点意思也没有
他不会因为你可怜而喜欢你
你说道理你都懂只是你做不好
不是你做不好是你不想做
你不是怕忘记他你是怕他忘了你吧
别说什么他离不开你的
其实分明就是你离不开他
他若是离不开你
他就不会不要你
整天死死巴着人家不放的人是你
不懂事的人是你
难道你没看出来吗
喜欢他不是你的错
想关心他不是你的错
控制不住自己不是你的错
但是那是你的方式
傻孩子．
忘了吧．所有你留恋的．你回忆的．你拥有过的．
那些．都已是记忆．
缺失并不可怕．
可怕的．是无法面对．
傻孩子．
勇敢看着镜子中的自己吧．
这个悲伤软弱满面憔悴的自己．
这也是你．成长中的你．
这个你．正在逐渐死去．
新的你．即将重生．
找寻你的路．你的未来．
你知道的．所有的浩劫．都是成长的祭奠．
做最好的自己．即使．一个人．
傻孩子．
你无法轻易忘记放弃．是因为你付出过．
付出了．她就会像柱子一样扎根在心．
不要刻意去逃避．刻意忘记．那只会让你更痛苦．
绕开这个柱子．寻找未来的幸福生活吧．
那里．有你的理想．
傻孩子．
开始新的习惯吧．
习惯．早上不再有人工闹铃．
习惯．每天一个人生活．
习惯．一个人过生日．一个人行走．
你逃不掉．逃不掉的．
那么．就勇敢面对．现实．
现实是．她已离开．一切．画上了句点．
傻孩子．
好．好．尽情发泄吧．
剥开自己的心．用文字．用声音．用所有能发泄的方式．
泄完了．就要振作．
看吧．你失去的．其实微不足道．
还有那么多人关心着你．以不同的方式．
所以．你并不孤独．
正是这样的失去．让你看清现在所拥有的幸福．
傻孩子．
别哭．别再哭．
不值得．真的．不值得了．
把过去尘封吧．别委屈．别不甘心．别不接受．
开始新的旅程吧．去遇见新的风景．新的际遇．
做你该做的事吧．有很多事．等待着你完成呢．
傻孩子．
所有的人都对你有信心．
所以．你也要充满信心．
你是坚强的．积极的．乐观的．洒脱的．
以前是．以后也会是．
总有一天．那个活力无穷傻气无尽的女金刚会复活．
傻孩子．
生活褪去了曾有的颜色．暂时宁静．
别沉沦在这片宁静里．那会毁掉你．
你要明白．虽然残忍．但这个决定．足够正确．
现在的生活．不是你想要的．
为了你的理想．你必须学会适时放弃．
给对方最好的关怀．就是．变的更好．更强大．更幸福．
现在我对你很好、很好、很好,
你不需要、你无所谓、你不在乎，你不珍惜。。。。
当某天，你被伤害，想起我。
那时的我再也做不到像现在这样一如既往、不顾一切的
对你好了。。。
因为那时的我，已经将你放低。。。。
原来，放低一个人，最后是被对方逼出来的。。。。
其实这个世界，真的没有非要谁不可，
走自己的路，别回头
p/s: guys, i think this is very meaningful.
是你的就是你的
不是你的, 怎么勉强也不会是你的
缘份很讲究timing
meet the right person at the right time
that is what all about^^
p/s: i GET it now~~!!!
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